The influence of coexistence in relationships
Have you noticed that there are couples who, after spending a lot of time together, end up mimicking each other? This may be due to unmet affective needs that lead us to seek external validation. Those who do not like conflict or find it difficult to forgive like to be with people who do not abuse their tendency to tell everything and in whom they can trust. Psychologist Robert Zajonc, from the University of Michigan, conducted a study with the conclusion that couples become physically similar as time passes.
Attraction by physical similarities
A study conducted at Stanford investigated how we are attracted to people who have similar physical characteristics to us. This reminds us of the case of the Beckhams and how they both like hyaluronic acid. Years later, at Stanford, a study was done on how we are attracted to people who have similar physical characteristics to us.
Differences and similarities in relationships
Despite the initial attraction to the differences, in the long run, these can become a reason for exhaustion. It’s important to clearly communicate expectations in a relationship because, despite similarities, no one has the ability to read the other’s mind.
Imitation and influence in social relations
It is common to imitate the things we like best about others. In addition, influence and imitation can be seen in various areas of life, such as in entertainment, where Carlos Latre’s gala stood out for its imitations.
Similarities in friendships and relationships
Similarities can also be seen in friendships, where we often end up adopting similar expressions or gestures. In addition, studies have shown that genetically we are similar to our friends, reinforcing the adage ‘Like loves like’.
Similarities with other people and animals
The tendency to look for similarities can be observed in other areas, such as in the choice of pets, where we often look for animals that reflect aspects of our own personality.
conclusion
Despite the similarities, each of us is unique and unrepeatable, like a bottle of wine. This reminds us that, despite similarities, each individual is unique and almost inimitable.